Monday, December 13, 2010

Taking Steps To Get Your Girl Back

Taking Steps To Get Your Girl Back

When you've broken up with someone you care
about you have a hard time thinking of anything
but how to get girl back. If you truly want this
to happen, you'll probably have to make some
changes. Whatever happened to cause the break up
should be looked at. Was it something you did,
or didn't do? Is it something that you can still
fix, or is it too late?

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If it was something you did or didn't do and you
can fix it now, then fix it. Undo something, or
do something you should have done already.
Apologize and make amends. This alone might not
get girl back, but it's the first step on the
path to getting her back. If whatever happened
can't be fixed, then at the very least make sure
she knows that you're sorry and that you'd change
what happened if you could.

Now that you've moved past what caused the break
up, the next step to get girl back is to make her
want you back. That sounds like common sense, but
so many people don't do it. If the relationship
ended with her angry, then you have to show her
the you that makes her happy again. You're going
to have to be especially patient and forgiving.
Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk
to her or see her.

Even if you're angry at the time or you feel far
from happy, at least show her the most pleasant
side of yourself you can. Make her remember your
good qualities and what she liked about you when
you were happy. If she feels you have truly
apologized for what caused the break up and she
sees your sweet side again, you might be able to
get girl back.

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It's important to pay close attention when you
see or talk to her. Listen carefully and don't
interrupt. Let her express herself without
jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel
or what she ought to do. You won't get girl back
by trying to boss her around!

You also need to pay close attention to see if
your efforts are having an effect. Sometimes you
can see that she's softening to you. She talks
nicer when she sees you, and you have been seeing
her more often. Maybe she even seeks you out
more often than she did before. Or she seeks you
out now after ignoring you for a long time. Your
efforts to get girl back are working!

Because she's so impressed with how sweet you
are, she wants to be around you more. And that
only reminds her why she wanted to be with you in
the first place. Pay careful attention also if
you suddenly stop seeing her as much as before,
or she becomes distant or angry talking when you
see her. That's a good sign that you're pushing
and she's uncomfortable. Take a break and you'll
have a better chance to get girl back.

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Talk soon,
Jeff Davis

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